Choosing a partner is a very difficult task, especially is to find a Mr or Mrs Right. I feel that everyone in the world take this choice of partner seriously and they think differently too. For example, some man prefer to find a wife who is active and likes to have fun while others will like their wife to be hardworking and diligence.
Similiar to other Asians, Chinese places family as the first priority. To be a good wife, the first thing she needs to do is to take care of the family. She has to be a good wife and at the same time excel in the role of a mother. There this chinese saying," Man will work outside while woman should stay in the house".
It actually means that, the role of a wife is to take care of her husband amd son. However, time has changed. More and more woman are focusing on their family and at the same time their career. Not only they work hard to take care of the family, they are striving hard at work.
In the past, most Chinese got to know their wives through friends or match making session arranged by their parents. Now, more and more people have other ideas to make new friends, get into a relationship and finally marriage. I have a friend who got to know his wife through an interesting manner. Because he has to fly frequently, he noticed this adorable air stewardess and decided he must find a way to know her. Thus, he will keep asking her for a drink. Finally, he managed to talk to her after the 10th cup. At the end of the day, she became his wife.
(Usually I will not translate as the way to write an english essay and chinese essay is different.)
It's quite difficult to find a suitable boyfriend/girlfriend.I think people of every country look upon this matter of choosing a good husband/wife, but different people has not the same idea. For example,some men like girls who play well while some men like hard-working girls.
As with other Asian people,Chinese look upon on family very much.To be a good wife, first you should take good care of each member of the family and be a good mother as well.There's an old Chinese saying:"Men work outside home and women work inside home."It means that the main work of a wife is to take after husband and children.Now,with the times changing,more and more women pay more attention on their work except family.They not only work hard to take care of the whole family but also try hard to look for jobs and work hard.
Once,most Chinese met the other part by introduction of parents or friends;nowadays, more and more people make friends in many new ways as well as falling in love until married.A friend of mine has an interesting experience of meeting his wife.He met her on a plane for he used to take a plane for business.He fell in love at first sight so he kept on asking her for drinks and once after drinking 10 cups of water he was able to talk with the airtress in the end.Finally they became couples.
Choose the object is a very difficult matter and particularly want to find out the suitable.I feel each nation of the persons all value choice wife's this matter very much, but dissimilarity nation of person's viewpoint be again a little bit different.With seek a wife for example, the nation for have of the man like a wife who seek the naughty son, can the man of certain nation but like a wife who seek the diligence.
Similar to the other Asianses, the value family of the Chinese comparison.To be a good wife want to attain first of be can nicely look after family, since want to be one the good wife also wants to be one good mother.There is in the past a parlance in China:"The outside of the male lord, inside female lord."The meaning is to say, the cuckoldry mainly works be look after husband and kid.Now, the ages changed, more and more women are value a family of also value an own work very much in the meantime.They not only want to diligently look after an own family, but also want to diligently work.
Mostly was Chinese to all pass parents perhaps before the friend's introduction knew an own wife;Now, more and more people make friend, fall in love with a lot of new ways, until get married.One of my friend knows his wife's process very interesting.Originally usually take the airplane, he saw a lovely stewardess, hence he wants to know her, so multiply by an airplane each time, he doesn't stop want beverage toward her.Finally, after being finishing drink 10 cup waters once, he have the wish fulfilled of say with that stewardess that ascended words.Afterwards, she became his wife.
To search for Mr. or Ms. Right is not a easy job, especially when you want to find a suitable one. In my opinion, people all over the world must be serious in choosing Ms. Right, which however differs in opinions for different countries. Take wives for example. In some countries, people like to find wives who like playing, while in other countries men like wives who are deligent.
Like other people in Asian, the Chinese pay emphasis on a good family. To be a qualified wife, the first job is to take good care of the family members which means to be a good wife and a qualified mother as well. There use be a saying in China: "Men for outside business, women for inside business" , which means the main task for a wife is to take good care of her husband and her kids. Now the time is changing. More and more women pay enough attention to their jobs as they do to their family members. Not only need they take care of their family members, but also work hard.
In old days, men got to know their wives mainly through introductions from their parents or friends'. But now more and more people choose the newest and the most populare way to make friends, fall in love until get married. It is rather interesting the way one of my friends got to know his wife. Because he usually take a plane, and he sas a very beautiful Chinese air hostness. He had strong intention to get to know her and kept asking him for drink every time he was on the plane. Finally, after finishing ten bottles of water on one trip, he, as his wish, got a chance to talk with the air hostness. In the end, she became his wife.
Choosing the object is a very difficult matter, wanting to find out accommodation particularly.I feel each persons of nation all value choice wife's this matter very much, but person's viewpoint of different nation again a little bit different.With seek a wife for example, the nation for having of the man like a wife who seek the naughty son, can the man of certain nation but like a wife who seek the diligence.
Similar to the other Asianses, the value family of the Chinese comparison.To be a good wife want to attain first of be can look after family nicely, since want to be a good wife to also want to be a good mother.There is in the past a parlance in China:"The outside of the male lord, inside female lord."The meaning is to say, cuckoldry's mainly working is to look after husband and kid.Now, the ages changed, more and more women are valuing a family of value an own work also and very.They want not only to look after an own family diligently, also wanting to work diligently.
Before, mostly the Chinese all passed parents perhaps a friend to introduce to know an own wife;Now, more and more people make friend, fall in love with a lot of new ways, until get married.One of my friend knows his wife's process very interesting.Usually take the airplane originally, he comes in sight of a lovely stewardess, hence he wants to know her, so multiply by an airplane each time, he doesn't stop want beverage toward her.Have once finally at after finishing drinking 10 glass waters, he has the wish fulfilled of say with that stewardess that ascended words.Afterwards, she became his wife
The choice object is an extremely difficult matter, must find
appropriately in particular. I thought each national people all very
much take to choose wife this matter, but the different national
person idea not too is same. Take looks for wife as the example, some
national men like looks likes playing wife, but some national men
actually like looking for industrious wife.
Is same with other Asians, the Chinese quite takes the family. Must
work as a good wife, first must achieve is can the very good title
deed attend to the family member, also must work as a good wife also
must work as good mother. China passes has a view: "Outside male host,
in empress." The meaning is, wife's main work is looks after the
husband and the child. Now, the time has changed, more and more many
women while take the family also extremely to take own work. They not
only must diligently look after own family, but also must diligently
work.
Before, mostly was the Chinese all is through the parents or the
friend introduced knew own wife; Now, more and more many people make
the friend with very many new ways, discuss the love, until the
marriage. My friend knew his wife's process is very interesting.
Originally, because frequently rides the airplane, he saw a lovable
stewardess, thereupon he wanted to know her, therefore each time rode
the airplane he all not to stop wants the drink to her. Finally, some
time in drinks after 10 cups of water, he achieved wishes with that
stewardess says the speech. Afterwards, she has become his wife.