有个太太多年来不断抱怨对面的太太很懒惰,“那个女人的衣服永远洗不干净,看,她晾在外院子里的衣服,总是有斑点,我真的不知道,她怎么连洗衣服都洗成那个样子。.....”
直到有一天,有个明察秋毫的朋友到她家,才发现不是对面的太太衣服洗不干净。细心的朋友拿了一块抹布,把这个太太的窗户上的灰渍抹掉,说:“看,这不就干净了吗?”
原来,是自己家的窗户脏了。
There is a lady over the years constantly complaining about the opposite lady is lazy," the woman's clothes will wash clean, look, her clothes hung out in the yard, there are spots, I really don't know, how she even wash the clothes are washed into the way. ....."Until one day, a friend to her home to discover the minutest detail in everything, not only discovered the wife does not wash clean clothes. Attentive friend took a piece of cloth, the wife of the window limed erase, says:" see, this not clean?"The original, is their home windows are dirty.
有个鲁国人擅长编草鞋,他妻子擅长织白绢。他想迁到越国去。友人对他说:“你到越国去,一定会贫穷的。”“为什么?”“草鞋,是用来穿着走路的,但越国人习惯于赤足走路;白绢,是用来做帽子的,但越国人习惯于披头散发。凭着你的长处,到用不到你的地方去,这样,要使自己不贫穷,难道可能吗?”
这个故事告诉人们:一个人要发挥其专长,就必须适合社会环境需要。如果脱离社会环境的需要,其专长也就失去了价值。因此,我们要根据社会得需要,决定自己的行动,更好去发挥自己的专长。
One‘s LuGuo person is good at weaving straw sandals, his wife is good at weaving Bai Juan. He wants to move to the country. A friend said to him:" you go to the country, will be poor." " Why?" " Sandals, is used to walking, but more people are accustomed to walking barefoot on; Bai Juan, is used to make hats, but more people are accustomed to unkempt. With your strengths, to use to the place you go, so, to make their own poor, is possible?"Tell people this story: a man to play its specialty, must be adapted to the social environment needs. If separated from the social environment, its expertise also lost value. Therefore, we must according to the social need, decide their action, better to play to their expertise.
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宋国有一个养猕猴的老人,他很喜欢猕猴,养了一大群猕猴,他能懂得猕猴们的心意,猕猴们也能够了解那个人的心思。那位老人减少了他全家的口粮,来满足猕猴们的欲望。但是不久,家里缺乏食物了,他想要限制猕猴们吃橡粟的数量,但又怕猕猴们不听从自己,就先欺骗猕猴们:“我给你们橡粟,早上三颗,晚上四颗,这样够吗?”众多猕猴一听很生气,都跳了起来。过了一会儿,他又说:“我给你们橡粟,早上四颗,晚上三颗,这样够吗?”猕猴们听后都很开心地趴下,都服服帖帖的了。
Yang Song, a monkey old state-owned, he liked monkeys, and raised a large group of monkeys, he can understand their mind monkeys, monkeys are also able to understand that person's mind. The old man reduced his family's rations, the desire to meet macaques. But before long, the lack of food at home, and he wanted to limit the macaques to eat the number of oak grain, but the monkeys are not afraid to listen to themselves, to deceive the macaques to the first: "I'll give you oak grain in the morning three night four, this enough? "one of many angry monkeys, all jumped up. After a child, he added: "I'll give you oak grain, morning and four, at three, so that enough?" Monkeys who hear are very happy to get on the ground, all instill obedience in the.
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