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梦之起缘,约分为五:一想,二忆,三病,四曾更(经验影像),五行引起(未来事实)。梦之起作用者,乃独头意识,亦称独影意识。相当于心理学上之潜意识。意识具分别明了功能,独头意识乃意识之影子。
独于睡眠昏迷,乃至静定境中,自起作用。兹分论五种梦缘。
一、想梦者:如思想专精,意思胶着于人事物欲等,于睡眠时即现梦境。但只能影射事物,或梦境独影中,联合生理病态,以及过去经验等,支离破碎之残存记忆,而构成梦境。其最明显之例,如男女相思,易形梦寐。此皆想之成梦也。
二、忆梦者:亦近于想,而忆之与想,功能不同。想者,意识起思想作用;忆者,于人事物欲,或见、闻、觉、知之事,习惯已深,无须意识运思,不期然如有事存心。例如陆放翁诗云:“死去原知万事空,但悲不见九州同。王师北定中原日,家祭无忘告乃翁。”唐人诗云:“行过疏篱到小桥,绿杨阴里有红娇。分明眼界无分别,安置心头未肯消。”此等所谓心头未肯消者,即忆念现象也。复如李后主词云:“剪不断,理还乱,是离愁,别是一般滋味在心头。”皆忆念至深之现象也,凡此形梦寐者,忆梦也。
三、病梦者:如饮食停滞,生理障碍而梦重魇,或被人追逐而足步艰难。又如血液不清、湿盛者,则梦水。生理发炎、火盛者,则梦火。血液循环太速、风气盛者,则梦飞翔。如血压高而梦冲举,血压低而梦下堕,肝病梦色青蓝,心病梦色红紫,脾病梦色黄,肺病梦色白,肾病梦色黑,乃至恐怖惊悸而梦恶,喜悦欢欣而梦祥,皆可统摄于病。亦可通于前之二者。
四、曾更梦者:即于前三种梦象,或牵连过去经验而成梦,或前尘影事,于梦中重温,故梦中之见、闻、觉、知,绝少有超过平常知识经验之印象者。有之,则非梦所诠矣。
五、引起梦者:非常情所可测,如梦入素未历之境,素不相识之人,素无经验之事等,但经若干时日,身之所接,悉与梦符,此即梦有引起之作用也。此种梦理,须研究佛法,知夫“三界唯心,一切唯识。”“十世古今,始终不离于当念,无边刹境,自他不隔于毫端。”究明此理,方知心意识与如来藏性之用,具足一切,遍含三际,含裹十分方矣。
知梦之成因若此,然后可知吉祥善梦与惊怖恶梦,皆属意识之变现,来因去果,自有蛛丝马迹可寻,实无奇特之处。观乎世人常有因吉梦而欣悦,或凶梦而忧惧,其实同一颠倒也。庄子不云乎:“吾固不知蝶之梦周?抑周之梦蝶?”岂非一大痴事乎!既知为梦,早成过去之幻影,孰此以求验,其与刻舟求剑,事将毋同。藏密中有修梦成就之法,以梦为入道之门。又如判刑待决之囚,一切希望已绝,当亦无梦。佛道中人,知见工用有得者,夜眠往往无梦;或虽在梦中,仍历历耳,盖已达醒梦一如之境地矣。有谓庄子曰:“至人无梦”,即误谓圣人皆无梦;实则,非无梦也,醒梦一如耳!苟绝无梦,何以释迦犹梦金鼓,宣尼犹梦周公、奠两楹。庄周梦蝴蝶,此岂非至人之梦欤!其义可深长思也。寻常所谓梦者,皆在睡眠昏迷状态中。梦境所起作用,现代生理学者,谓乃脑神经尚未全部休息所致。唯心唯物,姑置勿辩。其所谓梦者,乃人于醒后,五官感觉依然起用,意识分明时,能记昨梦。凡梦中一切,不可捉摸,不可控制,故称之曰梦。孰知我人日常生活,六根运用,迁流不停,例如眼之视色,一转动间,刹那即逝,与梦无别也;耳之闻声,鼻子辨气,舌之尝味,身之运动,意之思惟,皆无常存之可把捉,其无梦也何别?一日作为既毕,双眼闭而入睡,一切了不可得,则日间之所为,非即所谓梦乎!已去者不复来,未来者尚未至,年之与月,日之与时,分之与秒,刹那变易,安有一事一法之可得;所谓现实者,不过一刹那间之缘会,缘灭即散矣!若能仔细观察,昼之与夜,梦固无别也。
人如能常空其意念,如庞居士所云:“但愿空诸所有,慎勿实诸所无。”念念之间,于过去不留,未来不逆,现在不住,忽然三际托空,意识不行,则于应缘动作间,但前五识(即五官直接感觉,不再缘意识分别之知觉),对境起用,则此心如无,此身如一真空之球或瓶等,即唯识学所谓之现量境,小乘之人空境,可得现前。此时对缘外境,一切皆如梦中。视山河大地人物动作声音等,皆如活动影象。不但对外境他物觉其如梦、如幻、如影,即我此身心亦同于诸梦。动静行为,皆能行所无事,如永嘉云:“恰恰用心时,恰恰无心用。无心恰恰用,常用恰恰无。”岂不乐哉!虽然,此犹梦语。必曰“百尺竿头须进步,空花镜里莫藏身。”迨至远离颠倒梦想,得究竟涅盘,方可出世入世,一切自在矣。但于圣凡情断、超佛越祖之地,尚须痛吃辣棒。云门云:“此即为慈悲之故,有落草之谈。”若欲究明斯事,当复观云门语:“扇子①跳上三十三天,触着帝释鼻孔。东海鲤鱼打一棒,雨如倾盆。”毕竟如何?曰:参!(①左足右孛)
南怀瑾--禅海蠡测
很多梦是虚幻的,你不要一直去想着它,注重显示才是最主要的。你男朋友是不是诚实,是靠你们平时交往中体现的,既然你们平时感情很好就说明你不用怀疑他是不是不诚实,你应该相信他。但梦也不是无原无故会做的,俗话说“日有所思,夜有所梦”啊!
看来你的内心还是害怕被伤害,正所谓日有所思,夜有所想。你对你男朋友的信任还是相对的。
你之所以做这样的梦,说明了你的男朋友在你的心理占据着很重要的位置,你很在乎他,怕失去他,怕别人会对他有异议,特别是你的看人很准的叔叔,所以你在担心。因此就做了这样的梦。所以我说,没关系,随着你们交往的深入,你会越来越了解他的。时间会说明一切的。
从科学的角度来说,这是日有所思,夜有所梦。这就证明你其实还是有点怀疑他的,只是自己没有察觉,梦就是把这种潜意识展现出来了。从不科学的角度来说呢,那就是梦总是反的。相信哪一种就看你自己了,同时也能看出你对你男友真正的信任度!!
有人说梦是反的也话你叔是很喜欢你男朋友的
还有一种就是你很担心家里人对你男朋友的看法
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