Nowadays, there is a growing concern over such a phenomenon, that is, some parents take care of almost everything concerned with their children, including study, work and marriage. Some parents believe that this is love, however, it is only to destroy children’s independence thoroughly.
For the future of the next generation, more efforts should be made by parents to help their children to be independent. The fundamental one is to cultivate the awareness, namely, the importance and necessity of being independent, which is supposed to begin from childhood. Children should be taught that no one can be stronger and more helpful than themselves in this world.
The quality of independence is so indispensable for us that parents had better act as a tutor, not a dictator. And only with parents' trust, can the next generation accumulate confidence step by step.
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In recent years, floods of parents are willing to make arrangements and decisions for their children. And there’s no denying that a majority of children take their parents’ concern for granted. According to statistics, over 80% of parents still accompany their children to universities, even examinations. In this essay, I will discuss the measures that should be taken to help students be independent and offer my view on it.
First and foremost, parents should abandon the stereotyped role in Chinese parenting and render their children free to the fascinating world. Besides, they, the children themselves, should manage their own daily stuffs. In addition, the society should set up more courses and camps for children to cultivate their capability to be independent.
As far as I’m concerned, the all-covering parenting method may give rise to severe consequences, and a spoiled child won’t be competitive in this world, which is full of fierce competitions. Thus, the whole society should attach great importance to this problem and make our contribution to avoid this.
This generation of people with our words, we should let children "stocking." But not mean the entire matter, is not spoiled, do not spoil
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