要用虚拟语气。虚拟语气用来表示说话人的主观愿望或假想，所说的是一个条件，不一定是事实，或与事实相反。这句话显然是已经发生过的了。并且与事实相反，没有娶她。
If I had married to you,I would have ....
可翻译成“Hey girl,if I had married to you...."对过去的事虚拟，从句要用过去完成时嘛~
