Disadvantages:(弊)College students, not madly in love once control his emotions often indulges feelings, and lack of sense of control ability, to love object rely, misery is slightly twists. Once love thwarted, namely will emotion, cannot extricate oneself, caused serious influence on learning.Lovesickness and love is a psychological illusion of a cognitive and emotional mistakes. Unrequited love make some students in pain, emptiness, worry, even in despair. Deal with the love of life after marriage has a negative impact, so that the students in unrequited love to stop the other choices as. To overcome the unrequited love and love illusion, important is to correctly understand the profound meaning of love, at the same time, use reason to manage emotions, respect each other's choice, cannot emotionally.Love brings grief and pain, despair, depression, anxiety, the mood that such damage. Life is the most serious mental frustrations in one. Brokenhearted of negative emotions, if not resolve, will lead to mental illness
The college students' love: love matured conducive to the healthy development of the mind, The same cultural levels for both emotional and stable development of love, Love is the youth late and the most important events in early adulthood, only love will truly mature. "Love is the last students rarely pure feeling, in which we can learn tolerance, responsibility."Leon:(利)Advocates of love. On the choice of lovers in the most important condition should be like-minded, moral education, as an ideal and life interest cardinally identical. Should be the ideal, moral, obligations, organic combination of education and sex. Normally, the development along the acquaintance feeling is good friend - - friends - a friend - lovers, when a clue men become a girl heart anyone can't replace roles, love can come.Adjust the relationship between love and studies. Students should be put in the first place, school education and adjust the relationship between love and can't take time to love and to relax learning. Because the school is the mainstay of the college value. When the female university as the love of life, love is only a greenhouse flowers, delicate beautiful but cannot afford any attack. When love a woman only exist when the value, she will lose the independent personality and glamour, also easy to lose by reason of love.
Know the love is a kind of mutual understanding, trust, and is a responsibility and dedication. Understanding each other is for individuals and build a relaxed and happy atmosphere, not just to be pursue love, Trust is confident, oneself want to believe yourself worthy of love, others will love him? Responsibility and moral cultivation means individuals, it is a lofty love.
利:学习进步,天天向上弊:劳累