Good morning,ladies and gentlemen.Today my topic is Learning to get along with our parents.
These days,most of us feel it is hard to get along with our parents.We are getting more and more impatient with them and usually lose our temper for them.
I think one of the most important reasons is that our parents care more about the marks than any other things.They are used to treating marks as the measurement of success,and that presses us. The second reason should be the rapid life pace ,which makes us barely have time to talk with our parents.
To avoid this problem,we should attach great importance to it.First and foremost, we have to communicate with them often, tell them our real thoughts and win their understanding. Secondly,we have to work hard to live up to their expectation, after all, high marks do mean something.Last but not the least,we have to be patient with them.A good relationship needs mutual understanding, we have to learn to undertand them,either.
I think in this way, we will be able to get along with our parents very well.
Thank you!
Good morning,ladies and gentlemen.Today my topic is Learning to get along with our parents.
These days,most of us feel it is hard to get along with our parents.We are getting more and more impatient with them and usually lose our temper for them.
I think one of the most important reasons is that our parents care more about the marks than any other things.They are used to treating marks as the measurement of success,and that presses us. The second reason should be the rapid life pace ,which makes us barely have time to talk with our parents.
To avoid this problem,we should attach great importance to it.First and foremost, we have to communicate with them often, tell them our real thoughts and win their understanding. Secondly,we have to work hard to live up to their expectation, after all, high marks do mean something.Last but not the least,we have to be patient with them.A good relationship needs mutual understanding, we have to learn to undertand them,either.
I think in this way, we will be able to get along with our parents very well.
Sometimes we quarrel, even get red face. This is because we have generation gaps. We take things differently. For example, our parents pay more attention to test results, they ignore our daily efforts. So, when we have a 55 score paper in hand, they wil criticize us. The reason might also be that we are to idealized, on the contrary,they are materalized. We have day dreams which can not occur and in their eyes these dreams are impossible. Also, they take things seriously, but we are more flexible.
How to communicate with our parents and build link between generation gaps?
First and foremost, we should respect each other. Sometimes the young are "rude", their careless words can be an insult to their parents. As a result, communication breaks up.
Then, we should be tolerant. They adapt to new things slower than the young. So, we should not be so quick-minded and require them to follow our thoughts.
Thank you!
Sometimes we quarrel, even get red face. This is because we have generation gaps. We take things differently. For example, our parents pay more attention to test results, they ignore our daily efforts. So, when we have a 55 score paper in hand, they wil criticize us. The reason might also be that we are to idealized, on the contrary,they are materalized. We have day dreams which can not occur and in their eyes these dreams are impossible. Also, they take things seriously, but we are more flexible.
How to communicate with our parents and build link between generation gaps?
First and foremost, we should respect each other. Sometimes the young are "rude", their careless words can be an insult to their parents. As a result, communication breaks up.
Then, we should be tolerant. They adapt to new things slower than the young. So, we should not be so quick-minded and require them to follow our thoughts.