6岁的儿子在家调皮在外超内向怎么办

2025-04-05 16:45:04
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回答1:

1. 接受孩子天生的特点。强迫改变他的害羞只会让事情更糟糕。允许他以自己的步调发展会让他更有信心。

2. 用积极的态度看待她的特点,那样别人也就会用同样积极的态度来看待。不要称她“害羞”、“胆小”,因为在我们的社会中这些词有负面的意思,你当然不想让孩子觉得她有缺陷。你可以用“谨慎”代替“害羞”,用“专注”代替“安静”,用“深思熟虑”来代替“适应慢”。

3. 计划好避免不必要的过度刺激。有一套帮助他应对并从过度刺激中恢复的方法。每星期的活动不要安排得过多过紧。

4. 与老师沟通,帮助老师了解孩子敏感的特点和应对的方法。

5. 对高度敏感的孩子永远都不要使用简单粗暴的管理方法,那只会使他更紧张。通常自觉的他们一般只需要温和的私下提醒。

6. 帮助你高度敏感的孩子结交至少一两个好朋友。经常安排他们在一起活动、玩耍。

7. 平衡好给孩子的压力和过度保护。有时候他们是需要被温和推一把的。(我个人认为这是非常重要的。我一“推”,嘟嘟学会了骑自行车;再一“推”,他学会了游泳。例子还很多。每一推都有进步,都增强了信心,都让他很快乐。但一定要有计划,让孩子有准备,最重要的是这一“推”必须温柔。

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