如果是我的妈妈,这样对我的爷爷奶奶的话,我会说我妈妈教育我妈妈的,你这样对老人是不对的,如果你这么对老人等我长大以后,我也会这么对待你的。
I don't know about that! From what you said, the first thing I thought was that your dad was cheap. First of all, your father, as a man, should be the head of the family, but because your mother is the main breadwinner, the focus of your family slowly shifts to your mother, as the head of the family, especially a man, if you are stingy, if you don't see the point (your mother's contribution to the family) , you will feel low self-esteem, so it's uncomfortable to see everything discussed with your mother. It's hard to figure out how to fix it. Because of your dad. He did it because he was cheap. A person stingy to become magnanimous, not the general things can be changed. You just take it slow, talk to him, talk to him, talk to him. Talk to you about positive things, or take him out for a walk, see the world, open his heart, open his heart. Ask Him for his opinion on what's going on in the family or what's going on with you. Make him feel proud of himself as a father and proud to be the head of the family. There is a lot of care about him, in fact, he is because the protagonist of the family is not him, he felt left out, to do that is to find a sense of presence. And talk to your mom in private, get her to encourage your dad. Every family has its problems. Yours is a good one. Your family would be happy if your dad was in a better mood.\",\"speak_url\":{\"speak_url\":\"/audiofrom=zh&to=en&voice=2&cate=speakUrl&key=7ca7a2f26bb36287c61f948a3300b3e5&query=这个还真不好说!看你说的,第一感觉就是你爸太小气了。首先你爸作为男的应该是一家之主,可是因为主要是你妈妈挣钱所以你家的重心慢慢的转到你妈妈身上,作为一家之主,尤其是一个男的,如果小气点,看不到重点(你妈为家付出),那么在自尊心上是会感觉很自卑,所以看到什么都和你妈妈商量就感觉很不舒服。要说怎么解决,真难。因为你爸爸他那样做就是因为小气。一个人小气了要变得大度,不是一般般的事可以改变的。你就只能慢慢来,多和他交流,聊天,谈心。多去给你说些积极向上的事,或者有机会带他出去走走,让看看看外面的世界,放宽他的心,打开他的心扉。家里有什么事或者你有什么事也多主动去询问他争取他的意见,让他感觉到自己作为一个父亲的自豪感和找到一家之主的尊严。还有就是多关心关心他,其实他之所以那样还是因为家庭主角不是他,他觉得被冷落了,那样做也是找到一种存在感。私下也多和你妈妈沟通,让她也鼓励鼓励你爸爸。家家都有本难念的经,你家都算很好的了。要是你爸心态好点,你家就会很幸福的。\",\"tSpeak_url\":\"/audiofrom=zh&to=en&voice=2&cate=tSpeakUrl&key=82d1091ee1dac5a627030d16abe4f316&query=I don't know about that! From what you said, the first thing I thought was that your dad was cheap. First of all, your father, as a man, should be the head of the family, but because your mother is the main breadwinner, the focus of your family slowly shifts to your mother, as the head of the family, especially a man, if you are stingy, if you don't see the point (your mother's contribution to the family) , you will feel low self-esteem, so it's uncomfortable to see everything discussed with your mother. It's hard to figure out how to fix it. Because of your dad. He did it because he was cheap. A person stingy to become magnanimous, not the general things can be changed. You just take it slow, talk to him, talk to him, talk to him. Talk to you about positive things, or take him out for a walk, see the world, open his heart, open his heart. Ask Him for his opinion on what's going on in the family or what's going on with you. Make him feel proud of himself as a father and proud to be the head of the family. There is a lot of care about him, in fact, he is because the protagonist of the family is not him, he felt left out, to do that is to find a sense of presence. And talk to your mom in private, get her to encourage your dad. Every family has its problems. Yours is a good one. Your family would be happy if your dad was in a better mood.","speak_url":{"speak_url":"/audiofrom=en&to=zh&voice=2&cate=speakUrl&key=4c8e002d9ad68677060ff677832d5df2&query=I don't know about that! From what you said, the first thing I thought was that your dad was cheap. First of all, your father, as a man, should be the head of the family, but because your mother is the main breadwinner, the focus of your family slowly shifts to your mother, as the head of the family, especially a man, if you are stingy, if you don't see the point (your mother's contribution to the family) , you will feel low self-esteem, so it's uncomfortable to see everything discussed with your mother. It's hard to figure out how to fix it. Because of your dad. He did it because he was cheap. A person stingy to become magnanimous, not the general things can be changed. You just take it slow, talk to him, talk to him, talk to him. Talk to you about positive things, or take him out for a walk, see the world, open his heart, open his heart. Ask Him for his opinion on what's going on in the family or what's going on with you. Make him feel proud of himself as a father and proud to be the head of the family. There is a lot of care about him, in fact, he is because the protagonist of the family is not him, he felt left out, to do that is to find a sense of presence. And talk to your mom in private, get her to encourage your dad. Every family has its problems. Yours is a good one. Your family would be happy if your dad was in a better mood.\",\"speak_url\":{\"speak_url\":\"/audiofrom=zh&to=en&voice=2&cate=speakUrl&key=7ca7a2f26bb36287c61f948a3300b3e5&query=这个还真不好说!看你说的,第一感觉就是你爸太小气了。首先你爸作为男的应该是一家之主,可是因为主要是你妈妈挣钱所以你家的重心慢慢的转到你妈妈身上,作为一家之主,尤其是一个男的,如果小气点,看不到重点(你妈为家付出),那么在自尊心上是会感觉很自卑,所以看到什么都和你妈妈商量就感觉很不舒服。要说怎么解决,真难。因为你爸爸他那样做就是因为小气。一个人小气了要变得大度,不是一般般的事可以改变的。你就只能慢慢来,多和他交流,聊天,谈心。多去给你说些积极向上的事,或者有机会带他出去走走,让看看看外面的世界,放宽他的心,打开他的心扉。家里有什么事或者你有什么事也多主动去询问他争取他的意见,让他感觉到自己作为一个父亲的自豪感和找到一家之主的尊严。还有就是多关心关心他,其实他之所以那样还是因为家庭主角不是他,他觉得被冷落了,那样做也是找到一种存在感。私下也多和你妈妈沟通,让她也鼓励鼓励你爸爸。家家都有本难念的经,你家都算很好的了。要是你爸心态好点,你家就会很幸福的。\",\"tSpeak_url\":\"/audiofrom=zh&to=en&voice=2&cate=tSpeakUrl&key=82d1091ee1dac5a627030d16abe4f316&query=I don't know about that! From what you said, the first thing I thought was that your dad was cheap. First of all, your father, as a man, should be the head of the family, but because your mother is the main breadwinner, the focus of your family slowly shifts to your mother, as the head of the family, especially a man, if you are stingy, if you don't see the point (your mother's contribution to the family) , you will feel low self-esteem, so it's uncomfortable to see everything discussed with your mother. It's hard to figure out how to fix it. Because of your dad. He did it because he was cheap. A person stingy to become magnanimous, not the general things can be changed. You just take it slow, talk to him, talk to him, talk to him. Talk to you about positive things, or take him out for a walk, see the world, open his heart, open his heart. Ask Him for his opinion on what's going on in the family or what's going on with you. Make him feel proud of himself as a father and proud to be the head of the family. There is a lot of care about him, in fact, he is because the protagonist of the family is not him, he felt left out, to do that is to find a sense of presence. And talk to your mom in private, get her to encourage your dad. Every family has its problems. Yours is a good one. Your family would be happy if your dad was in a better mood.","tSpeak_url":"/audiofrom=en&to=zh&voice=2&cate=tSpeakUrl&key=4c8e002d9ad68677060ff677832d5df2&query=I don't know about that! From what you said, the first thing I thought was that your dad was cheap. First of all, your father, as a man, should be the head of the family, but because your mother is the main breadwinner, the focus of your family slowly shifts to your mother, as the head of the family, especially a man, if you are stingy, if you don't see the point (your mother's contribution to the family) , you will feel low self-esteem, so it's uncomfortable to see everything discussed with your mother. It's hard to figure out how to fix it. Because of your dad. He did it because he was cheap. A person stingy to become magnanimous, not the general things can be changed. You just take it slow, talk to him, talk to him, talk to him. Talk to you about positive things, or take him out for a walk, see the world, open his heart, open his heart. Ask Him for his opinion on what's going on in the family or what's going on with you. Make him feel proud of himself as a father and proud to be the head of the family. There is a lot of care about him, in fact, he is because the protagonist of the family is not him, he felt left out, to do that is to find a sense of presence. And talk to your mom in private, get her to encourage your dad. Every family has its problems. Yours is a good one. 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First of all, your father, as a man, should be the head of the family, but because your mother is the main breadwinner, the focus of your family slowly shifts to your mother, as the head of the family, especially a man, if you are stingy, if you don't see the point (your mother's contribution to the family) , you will feel low self-esteem, so it's uncomfortable to see everything discussed with your mother. It's hard to figure out how to fix it. Because of your dad. He did it because he was cheap. A person stingy to become magnanimous, not the general things can be changed. You just take it slow, talk to him, talk to him, talk to him. Talk to you about positive things, or take him out for a walk, see the world, open his heart, open his heart. Ask Him for his opinion on what's going on in the family or what's going on with you. Make him feel proud of himself as a father and proud to be the head of the family. There is a lot of care about him, in fact, he is because the protagonist of the family is not him, he felt left out, to do that is to find a sense of presence. And talk to your mom in private, get her to encourage your dad. Every family has its problems. Yours is a good one. Your family would be happy if your dad was in a better mood.