A smile to their
Still remember last year, the "high-end access," is an interview with Bill Gates, most of what he can not forget the experience of success, he said this quote: "I am successful is because all of them immersed in the failure of the pain, I have already started a new design. When all of them enjoy the joy of success, I have already failed attempts. As a Chinese saying: 'victory is not arrogance, failure is not hungry', I victory and the like will not be knocked down, but also a failure and regret will not be destroyed, there is more than just a smile. "
This can be described as classic. Real life, Bill Gates is to do so, when all of Microsoft's software viruses was almost nothing left, the danger of being broken, he laughed and had the face of the virus, three days after Bill Gates developed by the new generation of antivirus software to save everything. In the latest Microsoft System w indow s - xp successfully developed, the Bill Gates easily smiled, the beginning of another system.
The world's richest man and the difference between ordinary people is more than the face of his heart smile.
Laughter is also a pessimist and the optimist's a huge difference. Edison's filament in the election material so experienced the failure of thousands of times. After each failure, his aides are annoyed look, and Edison is said with a smile: "What is troubling, the failure of the first, it proves that we rule out the possibility of a wrong answer, a step away from the success of the past!"
Do not look down on you, they smile, a smile to the contempt of the difficulties you courage, a smile will change your life. When the life of the mountain like a huge pressure on you, give you strength and self-confident smile is.
In fact, not difficult to smile, bend mouth, and that is laughter. But the difficulty is a laugh from the heart. In the face of setbacks and unfortunate days must laugh in a calm; in a very melancholy mood of the day, smiling in a number of self-confidence should increase, not to be understood in the days to come by misunderstanding, we should add a trace of laughter in debauchery . Laughter is not difficult, it is difficult to grasp the scale laughing.
Do not complain about life too much to its own suffering, too many twists and turns, and too much pain to himself a smile! Let you in a calm and less formal; increase the number of happy, less sad; plus some self-confidence, by a trace of inferiority.
Not too much to face their own, do not be too indulgent, not to be too mean, and the hands should be holding the balance of life, to find their own benchmark smile.
After all, it is not hard to smile.
给自己一个微笑
还记得去年看《高端访问》,采访的是比尔·盖茨,最令人不能忘记的就是他成功的经验,他说过这样一段话:“我成功是因为当所有的人都沉浸在失败的痛楚中,我却早已开始了新的设计。当所有的人都享受在成功的喜悦中,我却早已尝试着失败。中国有句名言:‘胜不骄,败不馁’,我之所以不被胜利和喜欢击倒,也不会被失败和懊恼摧残,这里面只是一个微笑而已。”
这段话可称为经典。现实生活中比尔·盖茨也是这样做的,当微软的全部软件几乎被病毒侵害得所剩无几,危在旦夕时,他面对着病毒一笑而过,三天之后由比尔·盖茨研制成的新一代杀毒软件拯救了一切。而在微软的最新系统w indow s - xp研制成功后,比尔·盖茨轻松地笑笑,开始了又一个系统的研制。
世界首富和常人不同之处,是脸上多了份发自内心的微笑。
笑也是悲观者与乐观者的一个巨大区别。爱迪生在选做灯丝的材料时,经历了上千次失败。每一次失败后,他的助手都神情懊恼,而爱迪生却笑着说:“有什么令人烦恼的,失败一次,就证明我们排除了一个错误答案,离成功近了一步!”
你千万别小看这些微笑,微笑给你蔑视困难的勇气,微笑会改变你的一生。当生活像一座巨大的山压在你身上,给你力量和自信的就是微笑。
其实笑并不难,嘴角上翘,那就是笑。但难的是一种发自内心的笑。在面临种种挫折和不幸的日子里,笑里必须多一份坦然;在心情极为忧郁的日子里,笑里应该增加一些自信,在不被理解受误解的日子里,笑里就要加一丝放荡。笑不难,难的是把握笑的标尺。
不要抱怨生活给了自己太多的磨难、太多的曲折和太多的痛苦,给自己一份微笑!让你多一份坦然,少一份拘谨;增加一些快乐,减少一些悲伤;加一些自信,减一丝自卑。
面对自己不要过于苛求,不要过于放纵,更不要太吝啬,手里应该拿着生活的天平,来寻找自己微笑的标尺。
毕竟微笑不难。
Broadly speaking, self-confidence is itself a positive, self-confidence in the self-evaluation on a positive attitude is a positive state of self-evaluation.
Narrowly speaking, self-confidence is closely related with the positive things. There is no positive self-confidence, is weak and not complete, low-energy, and inefficient positive.
When a person is very hard to learn when called positive. However, if he studied and not on their own learning self-confidence, which is a weak positive, not a thorough, low efficiency, the low-energy.
Due to living and working with the other people in the society,a man,no matter he is clever or not,well-educated or not,must be self-confident.Self-confidence usually comes from your knowledge and your ability which you have got in the school.From the text-books,from your experience and from the advice and suggestion given by the other people,you should form your own characters and style of thinking.In this way, you will have the confidence in yourself.With the self-confidence,it is much easier for you to be superior to the other people and successful in a certain field,only because people would like to trust those who are self-confident,and they would like to gather around such kind of person.For example,when you take an interview,one of the elements to be judged is your confidence.With the confidence you have in yourself,you will easily pass the interview and become the right person that the other people want.
Flying hearts song
Developments in mind, over the twinkling of an eye containing a dozen or so. Since when, we have books with thick shuttle people in crowded? Since when, we do not want to nestle in the arms of parents, and even refused to even their little help? Since when, we learned how to maintain the distance between partners, how the bridge of friendship can not afford to have planes? Since when, the innocent smile from our faces slipped away, followed came at a loss and depression?
Is the pursuit of a bright future and high-grade material life of desire, the pursuit of independence and fear his companions were laughing at, is hoping for a good human relationships and care for fear of being hurt, is put on the "growth "All of the markers, making our hearts full of desire and fear, it seems that no other can not tolerate the slightest things.
Why do not you try to slow down the pace of life, put aside the worries of those nameless, to their mind to stay a little bit of space, put some things easy and pleasant?
It was put aside into the bookcase, opened almost to the door was rusty children live, to single out a favorite novel, and then sat comfortably on the sofa savor. Crusaders can go to enjoy the wind英姿勃发Knight color; can take part in a Jane Austen Ball elaborate; can stand feeling subglottic triumph of good and evil of human nature, condemned Nazi crimes; can Daojing with Lin,卢嘉川away to the ranks of the procession, the feelings of youth and endless impassioned vitality, feelings of "the rise and fall of the world, every man is responsible for" the bounden duty and ambition; can ... ...
Dust落满opened the portfolio and look at the depths of a drawer to find the brush and paint, sitting between the green mountains and blue waters flowers, painting a wonderful painting of the vitality of nature and creativity; the bench sitting the living room, painted a painting that parents looks familiar, then quietly climbed up the corner of the wrinkles, it will never change the kind of smiling faces ... ...
In the English taking the tape recorder, for a pop, sing of the feelings and problems of juvenile; for a Richard Clayderman piano, listen to his fingers between the outflow of the wonderful voice; even for a Pan Teng's album, feel the pure seventies and romance ... ...
Sometimes, when our hearts were full of packing, and so that we can not breathe, we need to get rid of some things that bit more space in their hearts, to family, to friendship, to be happy, to think about. We need a little bit of space to fly the hearts of the song!
Naturally my heart use material,that is to be confident.Emerson says "Self-trust is the first secret of success. "So we need to be assertive.When you have confidence, all difficulties will no longer be difficult. Self-confidence can help on all difficulties.
When in trouble, some people lost confidence, give up halfway, achieve nothing. Those who have confidence, will overcome difficulties, to a fruitful end.
In a word, confidence is the foundation of success, when you have confidence, you are half way there, self-confidence will help us to put all the impossible possible.